Mehek Kapoo says
I can tell you that because I am the first girlfriend of my boyfriend as well as the first love of his life, and nothing gives me that much pleasure and happiness in knowing that he has handled the first relationship of his life so well that we are going strong since 5 years now! Even more than this, what gives me happiness is that – the gap is covered fantastically! What gap? Well, here is what I think about “the-first-of-everything-theory” –
When you dream about something, when you want something, versus when you finally get it! That’s the gap that is covered. When a boy comes into a relationship with a girl, he has certain expectations in mind, he has certain dreams of his own. He always thought about treating his girlfriend in the best way possible, giving her the world, doing things that make her happy, loving her more than anyone can ever do! He has seen other relationships and he longs for a girlfriend of his own. He wants a good girl for himself to love and to be loved! However because of some undeserving people (the ones who cheat on their partners or leave them for stupid reasons), and sometimes because of situations and circumstances, the first-relationships don’t last. And when they are broken, they also take away a part of that guy and girl who were in the relationship. A part that they never regain back. And even though they might get into new relationships in future, even though they might meet better people this time, they will never go back to being what they were when they came into their first ever relationship.
So being someone’s first is a VERY SPECIAL thing. My guy treated me like a princess then, he treats me like a princess now. And I know one thing that if this relationship doesn’t last, his soul will be sucked out of his body, and he will become a soulless man! He won’t be able to love any other girl like he loves me now. So being someone’s first also comes with a HUGE responsibility of NOT breaking their heart and making them heartless for the world 🙂
Many would agree, many would not, but that was my personal opinion.
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